YOU CAN NEVER WIN OVER, YOUR MIND, BY FIGHTING WITH IT, BUT ONLY BY. …..

Please know that, you can never win over, your mind by fighting with it, for the simple reason, that mind is an illusion, mind is imaginary, mind is non-existent. Now, how can you fight with that, which is non-existent? I mean, how can you fight with that, which does not exist? You can search within and you will not find anything which you can name, as mind. Mind is a negative existence, like the darkness. Darkness has no positive existence, like any other physical object. Darkness is just a negative existence, meaning, that darkness is just absence of light. 

So, if you want to dispel the darkness, you can’t pick it up and throw it out, like any other physical object, because darkness is not a positive or a physical existence. For dispelling darkness, the only thing you need to do, is to light a lamp and the darkness is gone. The same is true about mind, too. Mind, too, is a negative existence. Mind is an absence - an absence of the presence. Consciousness is the presence, which IS and mind is an absence, which is NOT. 

So, for removing the mind, don’t fight with it. You can’t fight, that which is not. For removing or dispelling the mind, just bring the presence and the absence is gone. Bring awareness and unawareness or mind is gone. Bring consciousness and unconsciousness or mind is gone. 

Mind is nothing but just thoughts and exists, in and by, thoughts only. When a thought is, mind is and when a thought is not, mind is not. In this moment, if you have no thought, there is no mind. In fact, thought or mind is only, when awareness is not. Absence is only, when presence is not. Unconsciousness is only, when consciousness is not. You can check it for yourself, and you will find that thoughts are there, only, when awareness is not there. You can be in vibhava only, when you are not in svabhava. 

Hence, don’t fight with the mind because fighting with your mind is like fighting with a ghost. Fighting with a mind, will only worsen your fight because it will make something unreal and non-existent, as real and existent. More you fight with the mind, more n more, will it become real for you. Instead, you can win over your mind only, by ignoring it, only by distancing from it. Distancing or ignoring the mind is nothing but to become aware, is to bring awareness, is to be in your nature. 

Mind is ruling you, simply, because you are friends with it. Mind exists and sustains in your support. By getting entangled or involved with your thoughts, you are providing energy or support to the mind. This is what, we are doing and hence, the mind is ruling us and mind has become a monster. Mind is, in fact, living in you and driving you. 

Living in mind or by the mind, is living an illusory or fake life because you are living an illusion or that which actually is not. Living in the mind, is to live a life on the periphery, which is an empty life. The real or authentic life is the life of consciousness, life of presence or of awareness. Only, when you live in your awareness, you exist here as a presence, that you really live and you really exist because in that case, not the unreal or illusory but the real one or the existence itself, actually exists. Meditation is practicing, to ignore or distance from your mind.

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